This close friend of mine, claimed that these things happened, below. He said:
"The Love of my Life screamed at me, mocked my hearing ability, and ridiculed me for having smoked pot. She literally screamed in my face.
I snapped. Told her to "Get lost." And she did.
Yeah, she screamed in my face. After I had cooked her dinner.
That was the end, for me. I was so angry. It took me days to recover from the anger. Not sure why. Other problems had arisen before.
Now, I'm sad. Can't get over it. I should have handled things better. But I had snapped.
Still, I will love her forever, the way she once was. Now, she is different.
I wish she would have apologized, but she didn't.
Strike three. Out. Sad."
An apology from her would have short-circuited his insanity. And things maybe would have been back to "normal". Maybe. Who knows?